当约瑟夫·坎伯，神话的今天最著名的学者(和作者的优秀“神话的力量”)创造了表示“跟随您的祝福”，他反射现在似乎是非常适当的想法。 在“方士”，这个同样想法称“个人传奇”。
阿伦Cohen，在夏威夷住的治疗师，在这个题材也工作。 他说在他的演讲他要求对他们的工作和观众培养百分之七十五不满意他们的手的那些人。 Cohen创造十二步系统帮助人再发现他们的“祝福” (他是坎伯的追随者) ：
1]告诉自己真相： 凹道二个专栏在纸片和在左专栏写下什么您会愿意做。 然后写下在另一边您做着，不用任何热情的一切。 写，好象没人打算读什么是那里，不责备也不判断您的答复。
2]开始慢慢地，但开始： 叫您的旅行代理人，寻找适合您的预算的事; 去看您推迟的电影; 买您想要买的书。 是慷慨的对你自己，并且您看见甚而这些小步将使您感受更活。
3]停止慢慢地，但停止： 有些事用尽所有您的能量。 您是否真正地需要去那次委员会议？ 您是否需要帮助不想要被帮助的那些人？ 您的上司是否有权利要求那除您必须去完会一样的党他去的您的工作之外？ 当您停止做什么您不是对做感兴趣，您意识到您比其他真正地要求做更多要求你自己。
4]发现您的小天分： 您的朋友告诉什么您您涌出？ 您做什么与美味，即使它不完全做得好？ 这些小天分是您的大隐密天分暗藏的消息。
5]开始选择： 如果某事给予您乐趣，不要犹豫。 如果您是在疑义，闭上您的眼睛，想象您做出了决定A并且看见它将带来您的所有。 现在做同样以决定B。 The decision that makes you feel more connected to life is the right one - even if it’s not the easiest to make.
6] Don’t base your decisions on financial gain: the gain will come if you really do it with enthusiasm. The same vase, made by a potter who loves what he does and by a man who hates his job, has a soul. It will be quickly sold (in the first case) or will stay on the shelves (in the second case).
7] Follow your intuition: the most interesting work is the one where you allow yourself to be creative. Einstein said: “I did not reach my understanding of the Universe using just mathematics.” Descartes, the father of logic, developed his method based on a dream he had.
8] Don’t be afraid to change your mind: if you put a decision aside and this bothers you, think again about what you chose. Don’t struggle against what gives you pleasure.
9] Learn how to rest: one day a week without thinking about work lets the subconscious help you, and many problems (but not all) are solved without any help from reason.
10] Let things show you a happier path: if you are struggling too much for something, without any results appearing, be more flexible and follow the paths that life offers. This does not mean giving up the struggle, growing lazy or leaving things in the hands of others - it means understanding that work with love brings us strength, never despair.
11] Read the signs: this is an individual language joined to intuition that appears at the right moments. Even if the signs point in the opposite direction from what you planned, follow them. Sometimes you can go wrong, but this is the best way to learn this new language.
12] Finally, take risks! the men who have changed the world set out on their paths through an act of faith. Believe in the force of your dreams. God is fair, He wouldn’t put in your heart a desire that couldn’t come true.
by Paulo Coelho
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