Hello Jane !!

Here am I again ! a new month and a new positive message for the world ! hahaha

I hope you enjoy this one

and how are you ? let me know…

I DO have the intention to come to Cyres cafe … some day.. I will appear.. hahah

warm greetings

Frank

Happy October

Dear Friends,

Here in Belgium Fall is in town! A wonderful season that brings spectacular landscapes with beautiful colours and leaves Falling down. The trees are willing to let go of their leaves, as if it were the most natural thing to do… and so it is.
So maybe it is the ideal season to let go of some of our deeply rusted thought patterns and you may compare them with the red, rusty coloured leaves.

Yesterday I had an exciting conversation with my aunt - she’s a wonderful woman - about there being a lot of judgements being made, prejudices as well. Judgements are being made out of ignorance, out of not being able to let go of convictions and habitual thought patterns concerning a particular subject.

It is important that we see the detrimental effect of judging. It’s not about having different opinions or about discussing, which are to be encouraged. Judgements are being made out of not understanding the other. The problem with those judgments is that we often do believe them after hearing them repeatedly from others.

Who does not remember the feeling inside of having had a wonderful, but unusual, uncommon idea, not having had the courage to share it with others in the beginning and then finally, once strong enough, having told it to others, not being supported, rather being laughed at.

Something stands out here, that is, YOU decide whatever you believe in.

When we deeply look inside, we can admit that it’s not the judgment coming from others, although very unpleasant, which is discouraging our own ideas. It is that we choose to believe that judgment.

Let me be clearer about this, it can be somewhat difficult to see, feel or hear that others don’t understand you and therefore not only are not supporting you, but are really not making it easy on you concerning a particular aspect. We always have the choice about which thoughts we accept to be truth on any particular subject.

When we are strong enough, we don’t let others stand in the way of our happiness.

Happiness is created ONLY by yourself.

It is our perception that others can be in the way of our happiness.

When we have the feeling that others are standing in the way of us creating the life of our dreams, that may be because we don’t dare to follow our bliss / intuition thoroughly.

As a conscious being, it is good to watch our beliefs and judgements about people and subjects. Judgement, especially when put in a hard way, can be detrimental to the growing potential of others.

Yesterday evening I saw the well-known movie ‘Brokeback Mountain’. It’s a warning sign that we have to watch our behavior to not cause pain and distress by judging people, and that we must keep on following our own bliss regardless of the ideas of others. Let others live their lives as you live yours.

Focus thought by thought on your own happiness and so by Law you will attract more good feeling thoughts and situations in your life.

I’m not saying that you may not have your opinion about other people or subjects. In some way you need this at a certain level to personalize your consciousness, but you can understand that you don’t have to criticize and confront another in a hard way just because you don’t understand the other. By judging, I mean to talk about someone / something in a hard, rather consistent, negative emotion.

You can choose to distinguish, rather than to judge.

To distinguish means to be able to see the difference between what you support and what you don’t support.

When you feel judged by others, it is good to go inside and see that you don’t have to accept their vision, and that you have the choice to choose the wanted thoughts about that specific subject. It is not because the majority of people say no to a specific subject that you have to agree with them, just because they are more in number. There is a great impact from the mass consciousness about several topics. In the book ‘money and the law of attraction, learning to attract wealth, health and happiness’ by Esther Hicks, an amazing book about creating the life of your dreams, it’s clearly explained that you need the contrast (things you want versus things you don’t want) to be able to choose for that which you want. It’s the same thing when you talk about judgement. When you feel or hear that people are judging you and you know that you are right in your beliefs, then it is really important to focus on that which you want, letting the judgement of others be the contrast, so you can know very well what it is you want.

I know this is not easy, but thought by thought, you can overcome this, because the Law of Attraction brings more beautiful thoughts and more beautiful feelings with more power and so on.

Don’t be angry with others when you feel judged, see it as contrast. You need to really know what it is you want. If it is painful that they don’t agree, you thereby know what it is you want, because the negative emotion guiding you is saying that you don’t agree with them and so you know it is the other way for you.

So here in Belgium, as it is Fall, we really can see in the outer world the letting go of old leaves. It is the ideal moment to let go of rusty old thought patterns and judgements, as it catylises the process in your inner world when you see it in the outside world. In the words of Marie Diamond, one of the great teachers of The Secret and well-known feng shui master: ”As within so without”

Have a wonderful month and let those ‘leaves’ fall down!

hahaha

Good luck!

I wish you and your family all the best,

Frank V.