Hello Dear Friends

There is a story I want to tell you.

It’s about my new car.

A few days ago I bought my new car!

Here’s the story.

The last three months I had in mind to look around for a new car, as I experienced a lot of inconvience with the car I had until a few days ago. There was a lot of damage in the bodywork, my expansion tank exploded, my lights were always dimmed and it just didn’t want to work any more… so I decided to look around for another car.

From that moment on I had a picture in my head of a large silverstar car. I love that colour and I slightly prefer larger cars. It felt really good when I was thinking about this new silverstar car.

When I was on the road I looked around me and every single time I saw a large silverstar car, I felt a gut-feeling-YES, telling me it was indeed such a car I wanted to buy.

Then I had a specific price in my head. It felt right and good.

I knew very quickly which car I wanted to buy and the same regarding the amount of money I wanted to pay.

I thought about my favourite garage and I looked at the website. There was a beautiful large silverstar car. Awesome!
The only objection was the price, too much.

I made an appointment and went for a ride with that beautiful looking car and I decided to buy that one. It felt so great!

From that moment on turbulence came over me. I talked about this car with some members of my family. They told me not to buy that car because it was too large, too many kilometers, too fashionable. I could understand what they meant. I could see why they told this, but it felt not right to me. So days went by and the more I talked about it with my family, the more they convinced me not to buy that car.

I really don’t want to criticize my family here, I love them! I’m just describing the situation. They didn’t do anything wrong. By having done this, I ‘m now writing this here, so it’s a good thing for me they did it. At the time, I did not perceive that in the way I can now.

I began to doubt. I was not so enthusiastic any more about that car.

Weeks later I realized I had to look around again as I really needed a new car. So I went to another garage. I had heard a lot of good things regarding this other garage and so I went for a look.

In the middle of the showroom there was that beautiful large silverstar car, 2 years old and a very good price.

I told the garage owner that I was very interested and I wanted to ask several questions. He replied, ‘’sorry, yesterday I sold this one.”

A bit disappointed, I went home, but I knew one day I would find that beautiful car.

I already have experience in this process throughout the years I’m here on planet earth, so I quickly let go of this situation.

The following days I reconsidered again buying that first car I saw. I made the decision to only talk about this car with people who did share my vision.

Some days went by and more and more I felt reassured again. I wanted that car.

I called the garage owner. It was his wife on the phone. I asked her some questions about that specific car and told my price. She was a bit quiet because she didn’t really agree with me about the price. I told her that really was the amount of money I wanted to pay. She replied she would discuss this with her husband. In the evening she called me back telling me it was okay!

Not only had I bought the car I loved, I also paid an amount of money very near to the price I had in mind, by getting 1100 euro off their price!

For me, this was a fantastic and instructive story. It means a lot to me. An example of something that happens quite often, we often do really know what it is we want, i.e. that car, but then we loose our ”alignment to source” by not having the approval of others and we are the ones that disconnect ourselves from our source. It is not the others doing something wrong, it is we who are disconnecting ourselves with that excuse that others don’t approve of us.

Do you understand what I mean. We disconnect ourselves from our alignment, because we hear that others don’t agree with us and by hearing this we take it too personally, too emotionally and we feel not good about it. Then as we feel not good we begin to doubt it.

I’m not saying that it is not right or good to talk about your decisions with others. It can be very helpful, but when you discover that they see it another way, which is their right, it can be good to not talk about that subject any more with these specific people until you have that yes feeling again and until you are convinced again and until you are connected again to your own Source.

For me it was interesting to see it could have been done much quicker (buying that car), if I did not let myself get away from my Source just because some others (loving family members) don’t approve of me.

It is not something wrong that others do. It’s about your alignment to Source.

The most fantastic part of the story:
Once I had decided again to buy that car anyway, they finally did agree with me! And, they love the car too, they really love that car!

It is something to consider in daily life: how much do I let myself go away from my plans, my dreams, because of not having the approval of others and using this as an excuse to let myself go away from my Source?
It’s not them, it’s me doing that. It’s difficult when they don’t approve because as a human being, you need that once in a while, but it is still you doing it!

When others don’t support you in a dream you have, you can have the tendency to doubt your own dream. Don’t do that, just quickly realign with your own dream until you are strong enough again to discuss with others. Once you are strong enough, you can discuss. When you feel they really don’t agree over and over again, then keep on realigning yourself and stop talking about it with these people. They’re not doing something wrong, they’re just telling you their opinion, and that is their right. It provides you the contrast to really feel what it is you want.

Don’t use the disapproval of others as an excuse to disconnect yourself and let go of your dream. It will cause you pain, because you are disconnecting yourself.

Think about this. I am!

Have a wonderful day

Frank V.

Hello Dear Friends,

Happy March!

I had such a feeling of relief coming over me while I was swimming in my favorite swimming-pool here down town.
A feeling of ‘knowing’ that we are here to share joy and funny adventures, to enjoy life and to give attention to things that make us happy and light. I think we take life too seriously, in the sense that we often give too much attention to things that are on the ’surface’ of life. I’m not speaking about the inner processes we go through, nor do I say that it isn’t right to be preoccupied with things around you. But sometimes I can feel that we are too busy in ‘working’ and that we forget to ‘play ‘. Do you understand what I mean? Playing not just in the meaning of doing funny things, but also in the sense of playing with the laws of the universe.

It can be very good to give your undivided attention to your job or work. There is nothing wrong with that. It can be good to try to get out the most of it, to do all that can be done and to do it in your terms of perfection. Nevertheless I have the feeling that we are frequently too serious in those things. A wonderful thing is, the more you can see it from a distance, the more you are able to do it in your perfect way because you are in some way more free in doing it, less emotionally fixed on it.

In certain jobs - mine included - there is a conditioned thinking about approaching your professional tasks. I’m not saying you have to laugh continously or forcing you in showing the ‘fun’ you have in your job, but there is a distinction to make between doing your job with careful concentrated attention on the one hand and acting on your conditioned way in believing that you have to be really serious in all you do so that you can take for granted that they take you seriously.

It’s something I see over and over again in my professional life and it’s okay but it taught me to think about it and to see it from the other side.

In many cases, acting ‘too seriously’ comes from radiating/being (in) a strong mental energy. That energy of ‘logical thinking’, analysing, structure … and of course you need it. But when you’re not able to relax a little bit and to detach a little bit from that one-direction-logical-thinking-under-all-circumstances, then there is a risk of being too serious in it and being too much involved in it.

I really believe we are here to ‘play’, to have fun, to feel that life has so much possibilities, to share joyful moments with each other, to create, to love, to give.

The more you give attention to what it is that really makes you happy, the more your vibration starts to strengthen, the more you feel that you’re ‘feeding’ your core being, your essence. By doing so, the more you will see where you’re going in life and the more you will go to your purpouse in life, your unique way of giving.

We all have our challenges and yes they can be very tough, some more than others. There are things we just don’t understand, but don’t try to continuously use them as an excuse to take everything so seriously. You know, everything that there is in your experience, in your world, it’s all okay. The light and the dark, it’s just all part of the ‘game’. The shadow shows you where you want to bring some new energy, new vibrations. The light shows you what it is that fills your core being.

The shadow side of yourself is important. Let go of the shame and guilt that are frequently pushing you back into it, because you ‘think’ it is something that isn’t good. Be honest, dare to speak about your shadow side, the things that you keep to yourself, the things you dare not talk about. Don’t feel pushed in it but see it as the contrast. It shows you where you block yourself. Frequently the reason why you are so stuck in it is because we try hard to be accepted and loved by the ones in our direct radius, or in other terms because we want to be accepted by ‘our society’.

Let’s play more, have more fun, look more for things in life that give that wonderful feeling of ‘Yes , here I am!’

Follow your own way. We are much too ‘conditioned’ and ‘convinced’ that it has to be done in only the one way that the society is showing us constantly.

There is great diversity here on planet earth and it was meant to be like this!

In every domain of life there is meant to be a great diversity, but we as ‘civilised and developed’ people have narrowed this so strongly that we suffer from this in one way or another.

There are many examples of people suffering in one way or another.

We are brought up with the ‘convinction’ that every one has to do in the same way. We are trying so hard to create sameness in every field of life. We expect conformity. We try to conform continuously. We are suffering from it.

I think we suffer from this ‘cramp’.

Follow your own way. Make life feel good for you, no matter what it is you do. When you feel that stream of light, when you follow your own path, continue, with that which brings you to your unique purpose in life.

Have fun. Look for reasons to feel good. Give your undivided attention to that. Don’t search for approval in your society, only in yourself.

Do things with your undivided attention but don’t be too serious about it.

Think about this: What can I do to have more fun in my life and to play more?

Have a wonderful March!

Have a lot of fun!

warm greetings

Frank V

Hello Dear Friends!

Happy February!

As usual I’d love to share something with you, something that has hit me very profoundly. I came to discover it by reading the books of Abraham-Hicks.

It’s about that feeling of being stuck in something, the feeling of not seeing ”the solution” for ”the problem(s)” in your life.

Do you know what I mean?

It’s about that heavy paralysing energy you feel when you really want to change something - whatever it may be - but you just don’t see where to start or how to handle it.

No matter what the subject is, it can be heavy and tough to experience this.

Now the question is, what can be one of the best things to do when you are really stuck in a situation?

Let’s first look at the ”common” way to look at ”problems”.
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Hello Dear Friends!

Yes, this evening it’s New Year’s Eve! It’s by far the best moment to reflect about the past year, but even more to look at 2009 with a lot of passion!

I suppose a lot of us will celebrate New Year’s Eve and it’s a very good thing to do, to gather round with friends, with beloved ones, to have a great time with each other, to celebrate the end of 2008 in a good atmosphere. It’s one of those special moments that gives you the feeling of a lot of Good vibes hanging around in the air. I think many people feel this change of energy on days like Christmas and New Year’s Eve. You can feel it in the air.

There are many wonderful reasons to celebrate a New Year coming in. One of my personal favourite ‘reasons’ is:
celebrating a New Year gives us the opportunity to celebrate New things inside us.
It’s a very powerful moment to create New things inside and outside us. Many people have a desire deep inside themselves - about whatever theme it may be, to let in new things, to let in new circumstances, new people, new patterns of thought, new habits … Mostly we are so busy with what we call ‘daily life’ that we don’t pay enough attention to that burning desire/flame deep inside us, a desire which could bring us more and more to the expansion of who we really are. Do you know what I mean, you can feel deep inside you that desire for change - on whatever subject that may be - but still not have the courage to follow that desire. So from the vision of the Higher Source / Universe / God, New Year gives you support in letting in new things.

Every day of the year can bring you that change. Even more, every moment can give you that turning point. But watch this, because there is a strong supporting Universal Energy on New Year’s Day and given that there are so many people who are focused on that New Year coming in, there is a great opportunity for you to put your decision for change - on a particular subject - in that moment.

Decide to let in new things that feel good. There may be (will be?! … hahaha!) resistance on the surface and that can be overcome! It’s not really about forcing you to let in one or another new thing, although sometimes it can be very good to push it in the right direction as it helps you to overcome the resistance you hold. It’s about letting in that desire for change you feel inside. Give birth to that! When it’s too difficult to do it in this moment, it’s okay! You have all day every day to put in that decision for change. You could do other things instead, but still emphasizing that desire for change. Maybe it’s a long-held but always postponed desire or decision to clean up your office or to call a particular person, to get rid of that sad looking furniture and to replace it with a more fresh looking one, to take more time off to go for a walk or do some sports, to spend more time with your family or friends. You can ALWAYS let in some ‘little’ new changes into your life. Rather, they are not as little as they may seem, because those decisions put you in that strong energy of letting in new things and by the Law of Attraction they attract more and more of that, until one day you can manifest that strong desire inside you about that particular subject - now strong enough to let it in.

It’s about DESIRE and DECISION.

You can / may feel the desire for change and then you have to decide to let that into your life.

Be clear to yourself what it is you want to manifest.

A funny example on this theme I experienced yesterday:

I couldn’t find my 2009 agenda, a present from my parents. I searched my whole place but couldn’t find it. I didn’t have the slightest idea where it could be. I had an appointment with someone, so I had to leave my home. I saw my car outside, still packed with a lot of stuff I hadn’t yet removed. Frequently I have the ‘conviction’ to say, ”I will do that tomorrow”. In that particular moment I felt a desire for change, ”why tomorrow?”. Do it now! So as I was cleaning up my car, yes, I found my agenda.
For me it was a great experience and it meant a lot and it still does.

It’s not about saying you may not postpone things, it’s about trying to let in new thought patterns, new ideas, new habits, new convictions when you feel that desire inside you. It takes courage and it may feel a little bit forced, but you need that power to break through your resistance. It’s never about forcing you so much that it doesn’t feel good any more after having done it. I don’t mean that one moment of not feeling good after doing something difficult - which is sometimes typical for breaking the resistance - but about a persistent not feeling good day after day after having done it.

So when you celebrate New Year’s Eve or New Year’s Day, you might choose to think about that, what New things can you let in for the New Year, what desires do you have deep inside you (about whatever theme it may be) that are ready to be released? And, when it is too difficult for you to let in those desires, which other, more easy to reach desires/New things, do you have and how could you express them?

Think and feel about it, and then let in the New things and remember they are never ’small’ because as you work with the Law of Attraction they will bring you to the other ‘great’ desires more and more. It’s a Law!

Have a Magical New 2009 and let in a lot of Good New Things!

Frank V.

Desire is the starting point of deliberate achievement, and so it is worth it to discuss it further.

What is felt as a desire depends on the subconscious programs running at the time. These are the filters through which natural desires express themselves. The clearer these are, the easier it is for a genuine desire to be felt fully. If there are a lot of patterns which ‘interpret’ what we truly want in line with what we consider possible, then what can occur is that we feel an edited version of a true heart’s desire - exactly to the extent to which our present way of seeing life will allow us to experience the desire.

Our sense of reality acts as a filtering mechanism for our entire experience. What we consistently, at a deeper level, feel as true becomes our experience. This means *all* of our experience, including our desires. So if our perception of life is essentially one which considers something as ridiculous to even attempt, then we can have the most sincere desire and still not really feel it because our sense of reality edits it through the filter of ‘not possible’.

There are two things which are crucial to this filtering mechanism: fear and a sense of possibility. In a way, both come from not fully acknowledging your own power and having faith in it. But for the purposes of most easily identifying what needs to be overcome to progress effectively, it’s useful to classify these two as different kinds of emotional patterns. Because that’s what they are primarily, in terms of the level on which they have an effect on our experience - they are emotional patterns. And emotions are key, because they indicate what’s being attracted. If the intellectual mind thinks one thing and the emotions disagree, then the emotions win, in regards of what is an accurate indicator of our energy.

What ‘being clear’ is all about is to be free of the self-sabotaging emotional patterns which literally act like a magnetic repellent to what is declared as an intention. This might sound paradox at first. Because, if you want something, then how can there be resistance, which effectively means not wanting it? The answer is that one level of us can clearly feel a desire while others have conditioning running which states that it would somehow not be feasible to allow ourselves to go for that desire. An example would be someone who wants to be a musician in terms of what they really feel like, who has a myriad of emotional patterns which show themselves every time they attempted to really go for that. Those are the thoughts of ‘not possible’, ‘not good enough’, and the like.

These feelings are very common, and there is absolutely nothing unusual about these. It seems as though virtually everyone has some of these ‘doubting emotions’, and fortunately, this is a very benevolent universe indeed and we don’t need to be anywhere near fully clear of imbalanced emotions to achieve effectively. It’s just that the clearer of these emotions we are, the easier it tends to become to attract all the goodness into our lives. Attracting what we want via the Law of Attraction in a deliberate way means to adjust our energy so that it only draws towards it that which is genuinely wanted in our lives. Emotions are actual energy. They are energy which runs through our system, and so they are vital to this.

Fear and a sense of possibility have already been mentioned as key filtering mechanisms of our perceptions of life, and thus feelings. More specifically speaking, several areas are key regarding emotions; among which are fears regarding what comes with achieving on a venture, our feelings of self-worth, our self-esteem, how much we feel we deserve, and sheer faith in the process of achieving what we want. The first is in a way about the fear itself, while the latter four are related to our sense of possibility, and perception of life - except for feelings of deservingness, which can act as a direct resistance to what we declare as an intention. It’s perfectly possible to declare something as an intention, and yet to still have fears of actually succeeding with it. The fear, in this case, is most likely not with the success itself, but rather found in the things which come with succeeding. One question which unmasks fears rather effectively is to ask: “What would not feel pleasant about achieving this?” Maybe someone wants to be a musician, but they are anxious about performing in front of audiences. If that’s the case, then the anxiety of performing in front of audiences can act as a repelling force to being a musician. From a subconscious level, their emotions literally repel (or make not as efficient) the process of being a musician who performs.

The four areas of our feelings of self-worth, self-esteem, how much we emotionally feel we deserve, and faith in the process, are important to be aware of in terms of how our emotions affect achievement, but work slightly differently than fears related to success do. Nonetheless, they can have the same effect as the first one. All of these four areas (except for how much we feel we deserve) have something to do with limited thinking, rather than a direct fear, but if people think that they couldn’t achieve something which they would kind of like as their life, then the automatic result tends to be discouragement; and again, there wouldn’t be a focussed intention. And if we don’t feel that we deserve something, that is a direct resistance to a stated desire. The list of key areas to keep in mind is not exhaustive, as there can also be emotional patterns related to other things, but being aware of these could be of tremendous help with progressing towards a preferred way of living.

Having only some of these emotions can be overcome, but if there are too many emotions which disagree with the declared intention, then they act like a dam to a river. Clearing imbalanced emotions and limited ways of thinking which do not serve us can be one of the most beneficial activities related to personal growth. There are various ways of doing so, and everyone has one way or another which seems to work well for them. The key, though, is to be as free from self-sabotaging, habitual emotions as possible. This, it may be suggested, is key to success, because in order to really use all of our available resources to achieve something we first of all need to really, really want it. The more our mental and emotional state wants to see a specific intention made physical, the easier it is to operate at something more akin to what may be called…peak potential.

This is what we deserve. Truly fulfilled people who live the life which they’re passionate about naturally mirror it via behaving in a way which can inspire others. We’re all wonderful expressions of life, with fantastic gifts and abilities. Isn’t it about time that our lives reflected that?

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Thomas Sladek is the author of From Reaction to Attraction, a book which clarifies the Law of Attraction and provides insights on how to live deliberate manifesting. The book is available at http://ebooks.ebookmall.com/ebook/225220-ebook.htm . More of his articles may be found at www.creationofdreams.com.

Dearest Jane,

Your love and kindness pour through the pixels of my computer screen! My
eyes are clouded with joy from reading your lovely e-mail — okay, moist…
okay, I admit it… you dragged it out of me… tears of joy and love fill
my eyes! There, I said it!!! I honor your mum for creating such a wonderful
and enlightened soul as you, and for the words of wisdom she has graced and
blessed us all with on CYRES! I’ve always particularly enjoyed the things
she wrote and the way she wrote them. She is an amazing and wise woman. And
I am deeply touched and honored that my humble gift brought a smile to her
face and joy to her heart.

I feel a deep connection with this CYRES family — and each of the visitors
who come and go like brothers and sisters and friends and favorite
relatives. Each one adding their own unique touch and wisdom, and their own
“secret ingredients,” to the wonderful treats always on the menu at our
favorite CAFE! It is a privilege and a delight to be a part of such a
magical thing, and to be in the midst of such amazing and talented people!

With Infinite Love and Gratitude (and hugs for you and mum!),

Pete

Heart~felt Appreciation, Pete. Love always, Jane

Subject: Happy Holidays!

Hi Jane!

I just wanted to drop you a note and wish you and everyone there at CYRES a
Happy Holiday Season! I am always excited to visit the CYRES Cafe and see
all the cool and wonderful goings on there; and I am quite pleased to see
the CYRES Universe expanding…expanding…expanding — just as all dreams
should do! What a great world we live in where anything is possible and
dreams not only come true, but unfold in ways that touch so many people.

Please pass my holiday wishes on to your wonderful mum ( I sent her a book
and a little card for her birthday — I hope she received it!), and everyone
in the CYRES family. You are all very wonderful and special folks who are
each making the world a better place by just being in it — and WOW! how you
are all decorating it so beautifully! Keep up the amazing work! (Or should I
say, “play?”) Of course I should. What else would the wisest people in the
world do with their time?!!!

As always, I am at your service. Blessings and Love to you ALL!

With Infinite Love and Gratitude,

Pete

–
Pete Koerner
www.ExploreExpandEvolve.com
www.TheBeliefFormula.com

Hi Dear Heart!

Hugs and More Hugs.

Your note is pure delight!

Pete, what a bright blessing you always are.

Happy Holiday Season wishes to You, Jennifer, and All With You. Love to you ALL.

I am always excited to visit Explore Expand Evolve and Experience the three E’s!

An Elated Yippeee!!!

Yes, indeed it feels dreamy to be in a place of beauty and clarity where my dreams meet the dreams of many.

Our work is serious play!

Hoping that you’ll venture into the experience that is ‘Cyres World’. Your presence would add to the magic.

Indeed you have “the power to move mountains”!

Happily I will pass your holiday wishes on to Mum and I know she will be absolutely thrilled. She will smile so wide and be in wonder. Mum received your gorgeous gift of The Belief Formula on her birthday! What a gift in so many ways! I’ll always remember her opening your package and the look in her eyes as she worked out that someone she has never yet met, from another country, cared so much to send such a present. She could hardly believe her eyes. It was a new experience for her. Mum read and re-read all the personal words (really lovely) that you gifted, digesting that such love and appreciation can come from someone you haven’t met face-to-face. She kept looking at me and saying, “Jane! …”, smiling inside and out. I could see the smile in her eyes.

Mum is a Reader. She visits the local library often. Yet I have never heard her comment and compliment so much about a book as she does about The Belief Formula. I know it is never far from her. On the phone, she can reach out her hand to it, so I know it’s often on the little shelf next to the usual spot where she sits.

Mum is discerning and deliberate about the book/s she takes with her when she goes away from home. Further on from her birthday as she’s taken little trips, she’s taken one book with her, The Belief Formula. She told me she’d packed it! So I know (as if I didn’t already!) that it must be Good!

Mum is enjoying it so very much, it’s her Best Friend, and I am eternally appreciative of what the experience is gifting her. Know that you made a dramatic difference in her life and I will always remember that you did this.

I’m going to purposefully place this communication in The Cafe of Dreams, so that others may know, as I do, what a truly heart-centred human being you are. Every letter you send me, as well as this one, is full of grace and clarity, love and appreciation. Feeling, as ever, that you are CYRES Family.

Love Always,

Jane

Sunday November 2nd

Dear Friends!

At this very moment I’m looking outside the window and all I see and hear is a quiet, peaceful, calm atmosphere, with a teeny little bit of bird song.

Today it is All Saints’ Day, the day after All Souls’ Day.

All Souls’ Day. A day to think about beloved ones who have had their ‘death’ experience.

It’s not always easy to accept that someone has left his or her body, because we’re used to seeing, hearing and touching each other in this physical form. We’re used to communicating with one another in that ‘physical’ way and that is (when you can see it in a broader perspective) a very good thing, it is an implementation of our life here on planet earth.

So when suddenly a person leaves his or her body, it is really not always easy for the beloved ones still being here in the physical form. Therefore, first of all, I want to give a big hug and a lot of love and understanding to all who have experienced / experience the difficulty of that process, that being to accept the beloved person isn’t present any more in that particular physical body. It can be truly difficult.

From a broader perspective, you could say, ”it is true, it is not always easy, but you can understand that ONLY that particular physical form of that person is no longer here, the soul is still alive and awake.”

Although I believe that is true, you can be honest about the emotional impact on a human’s life. I mean, you may know that the person has ONLY left that particular physical form, but still you may feel a lot of grief and that is ok because you may have to live that grief too. It could be said it is a logical thing, because year after year you were used to seeing, hearing and touching that person in that physical way and then suddenly all of that is gone and promptly you have to switch to that other part of the person, being his or her soul / source energy. Really it is not a piece of cake because all the time you were focused on that physical part, you didn’t learn to see the broader perspective. Therefore it is a great task for almost all of us.

As a child, usually, you were told to focus on the physical form. You didn’t get teachings about seeing the broader perspective of a person. By that, I do not proclaim that it would take away the grief when someone passes. You should still feel that emotion. What I mean is, it can be a moment of consolation when you do know/see that broader perspective.

When people talk about family members / friends / beloved ones who have passed away, there is often a deep grief about ”not having done enough for them, not having loved enough, not having told enough how they care.” I understand. Daily worries (or daily choice for that kind of worry) often take us away from the essence of being here, and that is, to enjoy life, to love, to
co-create!

Hearing and understanding that grief about not having done enough, respectfully strongly motivates me to live my life NOW, to do NOW what I feel is my bliss and to CHOOSE to do NOW what I intended to do when I came forth into this physical body, to enjoy life, to enjoy each other, to love, to co-create. That really is IMPORTANT! You don’t need that experience of a beloved one passing away to experience this (I really wish you don’t need this). You can do it NOW.

When you feel you want to say to your friend that he or she is a wonderful person, just do it, NOW!

When you feel you have to clear up something with your parents or with a colleague, DO IT NOW.

The less you postpone this sort of action, the more you will feel that it is really good to do it, NOW. Knowing by doing this a lot of harmony and energy will come forth, ready to be used by you, to create wonderful things.

DO IT NOW! It is a good time to do such a thing!

Do it now! Whatever it may be that you want to say, whatever it may be that you want to do. When it feels good, when it feels right, DO IT NOW.

Are there things you have postponed regarding this subject? Things you wanted to say? Things you wanted to do? Things that felt right to say or do, but still not said or done? DO IT NOW!

Success!

I wish you and your family all the best!

Have a wonderful November month.

Frank V.

Dear Friends

As it is the first of September, a new school year is starting right now. Students are having their lessons and having their homework. It makes me think about Life in general. Aren’t we all having our lessons to learn, our homework to do? - even if we don’t go to school any more. Yes, it makes me think about Life.

There is something really important here, something that we really have to understand well. It is good and necessary to learn our lessons in life, that’s a fact. But something far more important is the fact that it is all about Joy! Yes!

It is so important to enjoy our daily life. Life is about Fun. About having a Good time. About Joy and following your Heart.

Time is ready now for many people to realize this.

There is a new energy coming to earth, a new inspiration and consciousness. It has always been there, but now humanity is ready to accept this new insight. Life is really about having fun, about enjoying, about good feelings. It’s NOT about struggling, not about just surviving, not about working so hard that you don’t have the energy any more to enjoy. NOT about an ongoing suffering.

It is time for a new kind of living here on planet earth. It always was meant to be like this.

Of course there are challenges in life. Of course there are things that can be very difficult to live with. Everybody knows this. And that’s okay. I am not saying that there is something wrong with that, it is part of our journey.

But now it is time to realize that life is not meant to be a struggle. It is really, really important that we understand this.

In general there is a tendency among people to talk about things going wrong in their life.

It is not wrong to talk about your difficulties in life, absolutely not. On the contrary, it can be very good to talk about this, but be careful then that it is in a constructive way. A lot of conversations are about things that go wrong, about limitations, about missed opportunities, about regrets. The daily news programs on television are unfortunately supporting this regretable habit.

So it is really important that we exercise the art of controlling our thoughts. This sounds obsessive and many people will tell you that you can’t control your thoughts.

You do have the power to choose your thoughts, to choose if you accept the thoughts you are thinking. And you can choose better thoughts, more good feeling thoughts. This can sound a bit forced and, yes, in the beginning, it can even feel a bit like this, because our mind is used to thinking other thoughts. So it can be quite tough in the beginning to exercise this. But you will be astonished when you see the results.

So as I said, it is really about having a good time here on planet earth. To enjoy the things you do.

There is a big big big question that you can ask yourself:

”If I had all the money and all the freedom and there wouldn’t be any limitations, what would I CHOOSE to do in life.”

Please ask yourself this question, it is really important. The answer to this question will show you the way, your way in life.
It doesn’t mean everything will be fantastic and without any challenges. But it does mean that you will follow your bliss and the more you follow this path, the more you will live the life of your dreams.

Yes it is about living the life of your dreams.

What are the dreams you have? Think about this.
What are the dreams you have?

We are entering a Time where it is really possible to act in this quantum field, to live your dreams.

It is important to really understand and live the following wisdom of Abraham:

“Where you are now is really really really really really really really really really Good, but it is a jumping off place for so much more” Exerted from a workshop by Abraham-Hicks

So don’t be sad when you find yourself far from being where you want. It’s okay. It is not easy, but it’s really okay.

Focus on your dreams and don’t ever give up focusing.

One day you will wake up and you will be touched and moved by the fact that you really are living the life of your dreams. In this new Time, this is really possible. And necessary!!!

Some will say, I don’t know what I want. That’s okay. Ask the Universe what is good for you and try to see the answer. One day you will know.

Keep on asking:

”If I had all the money and all the freedom and there wouldn’t be any limitations, what would I choose to do in life?”

Do it now!

Don’t try to use any situation as an excuse for not doing it right now! In your perception, there might always be some excuse to postpone this process.

Do it now!

Right now!

”If I had all the money and all the freedom and there wouldn’t be any limitations, what would I choose to do in life?”

Good luck.

Have a wonderful day and night.

Don’t ever give up.
Put your focus straight on your dreams.
Don’t let others take your dreams away.
Stand up and live your dreams.

The Universe / God is with you as you try to follow your heart, that’s a fact. It’s a LAW OF THE UNIVERSE!!!

Have a wonderful September month.

Frank V.

Well, I finished the book. The second reading is ‘a must’ for anyone who is really wanting to get the thoughts / words written.

The final chapters really help me to see that I can create my own reality. The most important aspect for me right now is the reaching for thoughts that feel better. We are all vibrational beings and I can feel my vibrations so much more now when I think thoughts that support me, or don’t support me. Being sensitive to that has helped me to see where I am creating good and wanted things, or unwanted things. I struggle with it at times, as my pattern of thinking has been going on for some time now. But I do feel relief in knowing that I can begin to change them, by asking to do so, then believing that I can, and then allowing the good thoughts to be the dominant ones.

For example, I just ended a relationship with someone I wanted to love for the rest of my life. But as the relationship progressed, I began to create negative thoughts, thinking it was the person’s job to help me get rid of them. Jealousy was the number one thought that was rabid in my mind. I felt myself slipping away, slowly, with each thought that came to me, and in the end I acted upon the thoughts in my head and created distrust and fear in the person. I take responsibility for my actions and see where I started to create what I don’t want. I now want to create better in my life, so I will work hard to move towards what I want and be open to allowing that.

How I will do this is, with the beliefs that I am loved and can be loved without someone leaving me for others. You see, that belief was created when I was little and has repeated over and over and over in my life, in relationships. Painful, yes. But it’s a thought and belief that I am someone that people leave. I now know that I don’t have to continue to create that belief, again and again and again. I now choose other thoughts and turn them into self beliefs of my value, self worth, and blessings that I have. I have realized that I have created this and I take responsibility for it. That is powerful for me, as I know I can change.

I am a loving, vulnerable, passionate woman. That is my contract that I came to in a recent training. The training led me to read the ‘Law of Attraction’ book. A book I had on my night-stand for a year or two and had not read! At the end of the book, there is talk about the ‘Segment Intending’ Process (If you want, and expect, to receive the subject of your intent, it will be). For me, the process clearly states how to go about creating your day, moment by moment, asking yourself what do I want most from my day, from getting out of bed, to grooming, to driving to work, to being at work with co-workers, … creating value for yourself in every moment of life. This is basic, and it is perfect for me, as I don’t like complicated things. I felt, this I can do, and it feels perfect for me to do it.

What I want will come, if I am deliberate about my thoughts and expect it.

Jane, thank you for your support and kind words. I feel the love and I appreciate it.

Today I intend to love myself and really have value for myself and appreciate me and all of my gifts. I connect with others and it is positive and freeing and loving. I see their value and love them and allow them to be whatever and whom ever they chose to be and we are in harmony with each other.

You have a great day, Jane.

I am now reading the ‘Ask and It Is Given’ book and I will write comments on that as I put it to work in my life. I look forward to the growth and changes that will come about.

I know that there is so much more for me to have and it will be delicious and full of pure wanting and desire. The best.

Love

F